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Quick answer
If a child faces immediate danger, contact police or child protection and get urgent legal advice. Existing parenting orders remain binding, but a safety-based breach may have a reasonable excuse only where the belief and response are reasonable and the breach lasts no longer than necessary.
What to do
- Protect — Call police or child protection for immediate danger
- Record — Preserve facts, disclosures, injuries and professional reports
- Advise — Read the orders and assess reasonable excuse urgently
- Apply — Seek urgent variation or protective parenting orders
Transcript
You believe the other parent is unsafe for your child. If there is immediate danger, contact police or the state child protection agency. Obtain medical care where needed and preserve evidence. Then get urgent family-law advice, because existing parenting orders remain enforceable until they are changed or a lawful excuse applies.
A person may have a reasonable excuse for breaching an order if they had reasonable grounds to think the action was necessary to protect health or safety, and the breach lasted no longer than necessary. That assessment is fact-specific. A general fear, old dispute or desire to renegotiate is not automatically enough.
Write down the child's exact words once, the date and context. Keep messages, photographs, medical records, police event numbers and professional observations. Avoid leading questions, recording repeated interviews or making allegations on social media. Tell investigators and the court what you observed, what you were told and what you did.
Seek urgent variation or interim parenting orders, safe handovers, time in the presence of an approved supervisor, information-sharing or other protective conditions where the evidence supports them. File the required risk notice and affidavit. If the child is not returned, the other parent may seek a contravention or recovery order, so delay can compound the problem.
A lawyer can assess immediate risk, reporting duties, reasonable excuse and the urgent orders to seek. Go To Court can provide general information at any hour and arrange an urgent family-law consultation where a suitable lawyer is available. The contact details are on your screen.
Sources and further help
Sources checked 3 September 2026.
- Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia — Compliance with parenting orders
- Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia — Applying for parenting orders
- Attorney-General's Department — Parenting arrangements after separation
- Family Violence Law Help — National help directory
- Go To Court Lawyers — Urgent legal help
Important
This video provides general information about family law in Australia. It is not legal advice and does not take account of your circumstances. Parenting decisions turn on the child's best interests and safety; property outcomes turn on the evidence and circumstances. Laws and court processes can change. Get advice from a qualified lawyer about your situation.