Australia Parenting arrangements and mediation 1 min 43 sec

Video chapters

  1. 0:00 Contact stops
  2. 0:21 Start constructively
  3. 0:37 Dispute resolution
  4. 0:56 Evidence for court
  5. 1:16 A child-focused pathway

Quick answer

Grandparents do not have an automatic right to contact, but they are expressly recognised among people who may seek parenting orders. The court decides according to the child's best interests and safety, so evidence of the relationship, proposed arrangements and the child's needs matters.

What to do

  1. Propose — Offer practical, child-focused contact arrangements
  2. Resolve — Try family dispute resolution where appropriate
  3. Evidence — Show the relationship, benefit, safety and feasibility
  4. Apply — Seek parenting orders if agreement is not possible

Transcript

Grandparents are specifically recognised among people who may apply for parenting orders, but there is no automatic right to visits. The court focuses on the child's best interests and safety. A meaningful existing relationship can matter, as can the reasons a parent opposes contact.

Propose dates, duration, transport, supervision if appropriate and communication methods. Explain how the arrangement supports the child and reduces conflict. Keep messages calm and avoid asking the child to carry messages or choose between adults.

Family dispute resolution may help parents and grandparents reach a parenting plan or consent orders. Exemptions can apply for urgency, family violence, child abuse or other circumstances. A safety assessment should occur before joint participation, and separate or lawyer-assisted formats may be considered.

Collect a concise chronology of care and contact, relevant messages, travel details and evidence of the child's connection with the grandparent. Address school, health, culture, routines and any risk allegations. The court may consider the child's views in an age-appropriate way, but adults should not coach them.

A family lawyer can assess standing, best-interests evidence, safety and suitable orders. Go To Court can provide free general information and arrange a family-law consultation where a suitable lawyer is available. The contact details are on your screen.

Sources and further help

Sources checked 3 September 2026.

Important

This video provides general information about family law in Australia. It is not legal advice and does not take account of your circumstances. Parenting decisions turn on the child's best interests and safety; property outcomes turn on the evidence and circumstances. Laws and court processes can change. Get advice from a qualified lawyer about your situation.

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